She’s been single since her heartbreaking breakup with Bachelorette winner Taite Radley two years ago.
And while Ali Oetjen, 34, may be one of Australia’s most eligible bachelors, she doesn’t plan to find love again anytime soon.
Posting to his Instagram Stories on Saturday, Ali shared his reason for choosing to ride solo.
Happy Single! The Bachelorette’s Ali Oetjen, 34, (pictured) has shared the REAL reason she hasn’t tried to find love since her heartbreaking breakup with Taite Radley
The blonde beauty first shared a question she received from a fan, who asked her how she was living her “single life”.
Ali replied to the fan: ‘Since The Bachelorette I haven’t watched. “Looking” indicates the need to find a man, and when there is a need, it creates resistance to what you need, because it implies that there is a “lack” in that area. »
“Be the woman you love, live the life you love, and you will attract love and a man who will complete your life,” she advised.
The secret to soloing: Posting to Instagram on Saturday, the blonde beauty shared a question she received from a fan, who asked how she was living her ‘single life’
Sound advice: Ali replied to the fan, “I haven’t watched since The Bachelorette. ‘Looking for’ indicates that there is a need to find a man and when there is a need, it creates resistance to that which you need because it deduces that there is a “lack” in this area”
Daily Mantra: Ali followed up the post by sharing with fans his daily self-love mantra: “I am love.” I speak words of love. I think thoughts of love’
Ali followed up the post by sharing with fans his daily self-love mantra: “I am love.” I speak words of love. I think thoughts of love.
Ali and Taite, 31, announced their split via Instagram a year and seven months ago, saying they were “taking some time apart” and giving each other “some space”.
The couple shared nearly identical statements in selfies together and said they made the shock announcement with “the heaviest of hearts”.
Ex’s case: Ali (left) dated ex-boyfriend Taite Radley (right) for two before splitting in July 2020
Gutted: During an interrogation scene on SAS Australia, Ali tearfully explained to drill sergeants how ’empty’ she felt after losing the man she considered her ‘soul mate’
A few weeks later, Ali joined the cast of Seven’s SAS Australia military-style show.
During an interrogation scene on the programme, Ali tearfully told drill sergeants how ’empty’ she felt after losing the man she considered her ‘soul mate’.
While Ali is happily single, Taite went public with his girlfriend in June 2021.
Let’s move on ! Taite (right) appeared to debut his new girlfriend, Chelsea Fenech (left), on Instagram in June 2021, almost a year after his public split from Ali