Sex-positive Bachelor star Abbie Chatfield has confirmed she’s in an open relationship with boyfriend Konrad Bień-Stephen.
Speaking on her It’s a Lot podcast, the 26-year-old influencer said she and Konrad, 31, agreed not to be exclusive after three months of dating, but remain committed to each other .
Abbie has yet to enjoy her newfound sexual freedom, but Konrad slept with another woman recently, then came home and told his girlfriend about it.
Polyamorous lifestyle: Sex-positive Bachelor star Abbie Chatfield (pictured) has confirmed she’s in an open relationship with boyfriend Konrad Bień-Stephen
“Everyone, mom and dad don’t separate. We just have a different structure to our relationship,” she explained.
‘Were open. We are in an open relationship, which we love,” she added.
Konrad, who joined his girlfriend on his podcast, said he had never had an open relationship before but wanted to learn the ropes.
‘Someone we met at the weekend gave us good advice, [which included] see a sex therapist, talk about your limits, it’s not like you’re going to sleep with someone,’ he said.
‘There are rules [but] you can always be wrong,” Abbie added.
“I feel like there’s so much more to a relationship than sex,” Konrad replied.
Kink: Abbie has yet to enjoy her newfound sexual freedom, but Konrad (pictured) recently slept with another woman then came home and told his girlfriend all about it
Abbie said she wasn’t naturally jealous so she had no problem with Konrad sleeping, but would be upset if he lied about it or didn’t wear protection.
“I don’t care if anyone’s genitals come near anyone else’s genitals,” she explained. ‘I care about lying. I care about getting an STI.
She went on to say that hearing about her boyfriend’s sexual escapades and telling him about hers was actually one of her “little flaws.”
Konrad, who appeared on Brooke Blurton’s season of The Bachelorette, then revealed that when he slept with someone else, he called Abbie the next day and she said, “Yeah, tell me all.”
The couple have been dating for around three months, with Abbie confirming their romance in November.
Rules of engagement: Abbie said she wasn’t naturally jealous, so had no problem with Konrad sleeping, but would be upset if he lied about it or didn’t wear protection
Abbie recently addressed rumors that the couple had split, confirming on Instagram that she and Konrad are still very much together.
“For anyone worried that I haven’t posted with Konrad in seven or eight days – don’t worry, we haven’t broken up, we’re just long distance,” she said. .
” Do not panic. We are always together. Also, we don’t have to post every day together, that’s good. We are always together.
Sexual freedom: ‘There are rules [but] you can always be wrong,’ Abbie added
She also hit back at critics who questioned her friendships with other men, defiantly replying, “I have the right to have male friends too.”
“I’m queer, so if I wasn’t allowed to have friends who were the gender I was going to fuck with, I had to sit in my bedroom and think about him all day every day.
‘So don’t stress, he’s coming to the radio show tonight. Then you can hear us speak. Good catch !’
‘Were open. We’re in an open relationship, which we love’: Konrabbie, as the couple are known to fans, went Instagram official on November 24